Before you paste anything: the ground rules
Three rules. Read them once, and they'll keep you safe for good.
The Dignity Line — what never touches a free tool
There's a line, and it doesn't move. On one side: the work. On the other side: your donors' dignity.
Donor personal information never goes into a free, public AI tool. Not their names. Not their gift histories. Not their contact details. Not their health, their family situations, their divorce, their windfall, the reason they gave, the reason they stopped. None of it.
Free tools like the public version of ChatGPT can use what you type to train their models. That means a donor's name and giving history, pasted into a chat box to "draft a thank-you," has left your control. You can't get it back. And that donor never agreed to it.
So the rule is simple: the AI does the writing, you supply the donor. You draft the thank-you letter with a placeholder — [DONOR NAME], [GIFT AMOUNT] — and you fill in the real details yourself, in your own documents, after. The tool never sees the person. It only sees the shape of the letter.
Every prompt in this library that touches donor work is built this way. Where a prompt could tempt you across the line, there's a Dignity Line note telling you exactly what to keep out. Follow it. This is the one rule that protects the people who trust you.
(One honest caveat: some paid, enterprise AI tools — the ones your organization pays for, with a signed agreement that says your data won't be used for training — are a different conversation. If your org has one of those, ask whoever set it up what's covered. Until you know, treat every tool like a free one. The Dignity Line holds by default.)
Read every word before it goes anywhere external
AI is a fast, confident intern who sometimes makes things up. It will invent a statistic. It will state a "fact" about your organization that isn't true. It will get a donor's tone wrong. It does all of this in flawless, believable prose — which is exactly what makes it dangerous.
So: nothing an AI writes leaves your hands unread. Not a grant paragraph, not a thank-you, not a newsletter line, not a single sentence going to a donor or a funder. You read it word for word. You are the editor. The AI is the draft. The draft is never the final.
This isn't extra work. It's the same read you'd give your own first draft. You're just starting from a fuller page.
The free-tool rule
Assume the tool you're using is free and public unless you know for certain it isn't. Free tools are wonderful for the work in this library — drafting, summarizing, brainstorming, restructuring, tightening. They're genuinely useful, and they'll give you hours back.
They are not a database. They are not a CRM. They are not a safe place to store or process the people you serve. Use them for the shape of the work. Keep the people in your own systems.
That's it. Three rules. Now the prompts.